Tuesday, April 30, 2013

April 2013

April showers brought
A wedding and funeral
And life in between

 
Charlie left the first of the month to go to China for a little over a week.  And there was no "April fools" about leaving at 3 am either...  He was extremely busy with the details of the new project and eating "exotic" food, but enjoying himself too, I hope.  The time for us wasn't too bad either, much easier this time around!

 
Our one big event while Charlie was gone was that Bruce and I traveled to Dallas for my step-brother Russell and Lydia's wedding.  We left right after lunch on a Friday and Bruce took his nap in the car, making the three hour drive a snap.  We stayed in the same hotel as the rest of the family too, to maximize time together on a short weekend.  I tried to take some photographs at the rehearsal, but it was really hard to manage that and chase a Little around the church who desperately wanted to either play the piano or climb on "stage."  We had some great Texas BBQ for dinner and then headed back to the hotel for bed.  



The next morning we had some time to play in the bluebonnets and spend time with family before heading over to the church for the wedding.  We survived the whole ceremony without Bruce screaming, crying, or talking too much... but he did need to drive his motorcycle up and down my arm the whole time.  Attending a wedding with a Little is a lot different than what I'm used to, but we still had a great time, and the reception was beautiful.  It was wonderful to be able to share such a special day with people we love!



That night Melissa, a friend of mine from college, came for a sleepover at the hotel.  We played Peruvian checkers and Farkle and caught up on life - I wish great friends like this lived closer!  The next day Bruce and I headed back for Oklahoma - a great getaway!


When Charlie got back from China, we spent a weekend at his parent's house in Perkins.  Bruce's cow had her baby, so we wanted to go visit "Purple" while he was still little and cute.  Bruce clocked many hours in the tractor while we were there, fed the dog way too many treats, and of course didn't want to leave when it was time to go home.




Charlie's grandfather passed away on the 18th, so we loaded up the van and made an impromptu trip to Louisiana.  It was great to celebrate Gutie's life the best way possible - a big family gathering with lots of love to go around.  With nine children, 17 grandchildren, and 17 great-grandchildren (with two more one the way) there was lots of love to go around.

ALL of the Kolariks!

We got our fill of old stories and crawfish, and even spent an afternoon on Avery Island getting too close to alligators.  It was fun to have Bruce play with his cousins too - even if it ended in tears on more than one occasion when it was time to put the toys away to take a nap or go to bed.  Aunt Michelle did send an early birthday home with Bruce though, which he greatly appreciated. He's now the proud owner of his very own lawn mower, or mow-mower as he calls it.

 
 
before he swam up and started hissing...


The weather in Oklahoma this Spring has been less than desirable, but we're surviving.  It seems like every time we get a gorgeous day, it's followed by several cold, windy, gray ones that rob any shred of hope for outside time.  And our boy LOVES outside time.  So there have been many days where he stands, face plastered to the back windowed door, repeating the refrain, "'side. 'side? 'side... 'side..." We do take advantage of the nice days, or minutes even, when they roll around, and hunt for bugs, play in the sandbox, search for the perfect sticks and stones, and take wagon rides.

Bruce found a caterpillar
 
and a beetle

and a ladybug

and some bean pods
 
Along with outdoor adventures, Bruce has continued to make gains in everything to do with growing up.  It's getting harder to list what those gains are though!  His spoken vocabulary continues to grow daily.  Sometimes coming up with words that I have no idea how he learned - like "brow" for eyebrow.  We never point those out when we're naming facial features.  He also tells me he wants to wear "khakis" when he gets dressed in the morning.  What?  I know I've probaby called them that, but never emphasized it, I'm sure.  He isn't speaking in sentences yet, or even stringing a few words together, but I do know he's thinking full thoughts at least, and a conversation might go something like this:

Bruce: Pa
Me: Grandpa?
B: ah. (yes)
Me:  What about Grandpa?
B: tractor
M: Grandpa has a tractor?
B: barn
M: Yep, Grandpa keeps his tractor in the barn.
B: hay
M: Is there hay in the barn too?
B: ah.
M: What does Grandpa do with the hay?
B: Mmmmmmmmmmmm (mooing)
M: Grandpa feeds hay to the cows?
B: ah.

And then the "conversation" starts over again.  And is usually repeated several times before moving on to a new topic. 

he's so tiny in that big tractor!

These days he loves trucks and cars and motorcycles and helicopters - anything with wheels and an engine I guess.  He also still loves animals, both real and stuffed, and anything even remotely resembling a musical instrument. 

in the weather van at "Touch a Truck"

"hugging" Uncle John's cat

I'm now at the halfway mark for this pregnancy, which is incredibly hard to believe.  The time is passing so quickly.  When I think about a late September due date, that still seems a ways off, which is nice and calming to the nerves, but when I think about how fast the past few months have gone by, I have a feeling September will be here before we know it.  I'm feeling a lot better these days, still tired, but more like myself again.  We'll find out the gender next week, so the suspense will linger a little longer!


We haven't started our garden yet - I'd like to blame it on the freezing temperatures that still frequent our extended day forecasts, but really we've just been too busy!  The finicky weather has been a great scapegoat though!  We finally went to the Farmer's Market last weekend and bought our seedlings to start hardening them.  After the freezes this week, I think we're in the clear, and are planning to do some planting this weekend.  I don't know if we'll have any luck this season, but we're always hopeful!


Bruce weeding...

just like Daddy


Thursday, March 28, 2013

March 2013

The trees are in bloom
Hints toward a season change
March's tease for Spring

 
One of the big activities for this month included a family vacation to Disney World!  We knew Bruce was really too young for that kind of trip, but we wanted to join the extended family for the adventure and we got great deals on everything, so we couldn't pass up the opportunity.  In a nutshell, the vacation was filled with a lot of wonderful memories, along with its share of near-nightmares - everything that makes a family vacation a great family vacation.


Our flight leaving OKC was an hour late, and we only had a 45 minute lay-over in Houston... so our trip didn't start off too well.  I was praying for a miracle - that we'd still somehow make our connecting flight - but as we were landing, our flight to Orlando was taking off (A handy "app" told us that, so at least we didn't have to run like crazies through the airport).  I didn't get the miracle I was hoping for, but the one I got instead was still pretty great.  I was pacing the terminal with a screaming lunch-less, nap-less toddler, who didn't understand why I wouldn't let him drive the airport tram cart, while Charlie was trying to negotiate something with the United representative.  The best he could do was getting us on standby later that evening with a confirmed flight the next morning.  I was freaking out on the inside, and trying to keep cool on the outside.  We had lunch, and then Charlie remembered he had two guest passes to the United club lounge that he'd be saving for a rainy day.  So we got to relax in the posh environs of the rich and famous, with all the free drinks and snacks we could want.  Bruce got to nap in my arms in a super-comfy chair, and Charlie got the lounge reps to work their fancy magic and get us confirmed on a flight to Orlando that night.  A couple of Whiskey cokes (Charlie), a mountain of Milano cookies (me) and a wonderful nap (Bruce) later, we were all in much better spirits.  We didn't make it to our hotel room until after midnight, but we were in our hotel room, in Orlando, so all was well in the world.

Momo's ready to go!

Bruce enjoying the flight

finally getting to "drive" the tram

We spent three days park hopping between the Magic Kingdom, Animal Kingdom, and Epcot with my mom and Rick, brother and his wife, ALL FOUR of their kids, and a lot of my brother's in-laws.  Even with me being pregnant, and Bruce being so little, we were still able to enjoy to so much of what the parks had to offer.


Our favorite day was a drizzly Tuesday morning.  I have to admit, leaving the hotel I had a pretty rotten attitude.  I HATE drizzly rainy days.  And there wasn't supposed to be any rain.  But, my attitude quickly turned around when we realized that the rain was keeping everyone away!  We were able to ride six rides at the Magic Kingdom, and have lunch, in under three hours!

 


playing a "pumba" (drum)

Bruce was mesmerized by a lot of the rides, especially "It's a Small World," but I think he loved the Animal Kingdom best of all.  That kid really loves animals.

looking at the "shish"

more fish!
not an official attraction, but caught Bruce's eye!

Although traveling with a large group made it difficult to spend a lot of time with everyone, it was still really sweet to make some memories with everyone.  Especially my nieces and nephew, because I don't see them nearly enough.  Hopefully we'll have a lot more extended family vacations in the future!

 


The hardest part of the trip, was that Bruce decided to quit eating a couple of days in.  I think it was a combination of "travel tummy" along with being too distracted eating in public for every meal.  We tried not to worry, knowing he would eat if he really needed to, but it was still sad to see him go through several different "bathroom complications" as a result of his meal rebellion.  


The airplane ride home was a lot harder for Bruce, but we made it.  We all made it.  Vacationing is awesome, but it's always so nice to be home.  And we got home just in time to put Bruce to bed, and all was well in the world again.


Our days at home have been really nice, too - Bruce has been a fun little buddy to spend time with.  We still struggle with mundaneness at times though - trying to make our moments matter and not feel like we're living out the movie 50 First DatesFor the most part I think we're finding a good balance between sharing adventures looking for ladybugs in the backyard, and snuggling on the couch with the iPad.  Growing another baby has definitely taken its toll on me this month, and I've certainly become a lot more lax on the iPad viewing time.  But this is just a season, right?  And I do think he's learning quite a bit from those silly Baby Einstein videos, because our little guy is SUCH a talker now!  I couldn't list his words even if I wanted too.  So I'm trying not to to be too hard on myself.

silliness at Target


playing at the park



dirt work

Along with talking more, Bruce is becoming so much more affectionate, which I can never get enough of.  He's great with giving away hugs and kisses, and even invents new ways of kissing.  Lately it's been "pig snort" kisses, which involve him grabbing your hand, pressing the back of it against his nose and mouth, and giving a great gusto of a snort, followed by a heart-melting giggle.  He knows when he's being funny, and loves to "play jokes" with you to see you smile.  He also loves to give high fives and fist bumps now - I have no idea who taught him how to fist bump, but it's super cute and I can't take credit for it.  

a tolerant Mr. Pants

Speaking of growing another baby - I'm 14-ish weeks along now, and everything is still progressing well.  I had a week or so of crazy (all-day) morning sickness, but other than that, I've been feeling pretty good, except for being exhausted all the time, of course.  I had an extra ultrasound this past week to check on things because they had noticed a small hemorrhage at my previous ultrasound, but everything looked great this time around, and it was fun to get another peak at the baby.  I go in on Tuesday for my regular check up, and they should schedule the gender ultrasound at that time.  (I mean, I guess the ultrasound is for a lot of other things too, but we only care about the gender, right?)  So maybe by my next update I'll be able to share that news as well.


Charlie has still been traveling quite a bit, and working really hard.  It was nice for him to be able to take some vacation time this month, but I think he's more than made up for it in the weeks since we've been home.  He leaves tomorrow for another trip to China for ten days, so Bruce and I will by flying solo for a while.  We have a few things on the calendar though, including a family wedding in Dallas next weekend, so I'm hoping the time will pass by quickly.


And what about Easter?  We celebrated by having our next door neighbors over to dye eggs with us.  All five of our chickens are in an egg-laying season right now, so we had 76 eggs to color!  (I had closer to 100 saved up, but had to throw several of them away because they were cracked a little.)  It's funny because we still tease my mom about the Easter over 20 years ago when she waited too long to buy the eggs, and was stuck buying brown eggs - but I found myself a little sad this year because all of our chickens lay white eggs now, and the past few years I've really enjoyed dying the brown eggs.  They give such a rich, deep, earthy background to the colors.  But we enjoyed our white eggs nonetheless.  Bruce even dyed a few himself, and enjoyed scribbling on them with crayons after they were colored.  We finished off the night with our annual egg war, and Molli was the champion this year!  We made a little Easter basket for Bruce to wake up to this morning, but didn't go overboard.  Since Bruce gets up before the sun, and Charlie doesn't, we didn't hide eggs for him until his nap today so we all could be a part of that.  Bruce needed a little help finding a few of the eggs, but for the most part, he got the gist of the game.  I'm sure the Reese Pieces inside of the eggs were a little bit of a motivator also.






Easter grass... the best part!

 
sorting eggs
 
not happy about having to put the eggs away...
 
But what about Easter.  It seems fitting that since I'm posting this update on the holiday itself, I should share a little bit of what's been on my heart.  This year I've been a little mixed-emotioned about the day, the season.  I love The Plan.  I'm thankful for a Creator God who pursues his people.  I'm incredibly thankful that Jesus came and conquered death to bring restoration.  As yes, I believe that He will come again and make all things new.  But I've been walking alongside two friends in this season, faced with crazy challenge, and finding it hard to trust The Plan, and see goodness.  It focuses my thoughts Heavenward more intensely,  believing that Heaven is for the now, and longing for miracles, but struggling to find enough faith for them.  So that's my prayer for this coming season, for myself and all who want to claim it as well, for an increased measure of faith, for amazing encounters with Jesus, to be impacted by the power of God, and to feel the assurance of His presence and nearness.


Happy Easter!